˗ˏˋ 🌊 ࿐࿔ R ₊ S QOTD ⸝⸝⸝ #14
₊˚⊹ — Do you believe all humans deserve equal chances (at all points in their life) to change (for the better or worse)?

I would like to elaborate on this one, but it’s tricky. Maybe this would work better as an open ended question.

For those who say yes, I ask, for you, that does apply to criminals, right? Even the worst of them? And does your view change depending on remorse or guilt that these people feel?

For those who say no, I ask, what about you? At your lowest, do you feel the same way? That that person, the one doing terribly (for whatever reason it may be) doesn’t deserve to get better? And if you, in this case, say no, you DO deserve to get better: why not those around you? —

I doubt this will be answered the way I intend, so I may re write it later… >_<

As always, thank you to those of you who answer!! ^_^

s+r qotd yes or no answer (for once!)

i firstly, specifically ask that you answer with either yes or no. your answer will mean much less to me if you don't follow that rule and we all know how much you guys care about how much you mean to me! (kidding, it actually won't because i love you all. but follow my rules man. comment on ur post or something)

can you personally understand why exactly (this is a stupid question, just a warning) i would want to change my banner even though it's "valuable" to some extent?

can you see that it's hard to both support "well, it has no value, actually. if having a cute theme would make ME happier then who cares?" as well as "but a theme shouldn't define happiness to any extent, nor should it define your being to any extent, which, like, you sort of think it does. plus, it makes you like sort of unique; the same as your username and everything else about you that you refuse to change."

do you empathize (possibly within yourself) the struggle of online existence as you have to choose between constantly fleeting personalities and perspectives on yourself (that you probably don't even know because you are possibly the ONLY ONE who cares) that other have, vs the (likely futile) attempt to stay consistent just to prove to, again, possibly no one, that you can DO it and the fact you are unique and you is good?

so, once again, can you see how this is a conflict for me? or, can you see this in yourself? do i sound absolutely insane? feel free to answer ALL of these with yes or no.

also YES i DO know that almost every 'coherent' sentence that leaves my mouth or comes from my keyboard makes close to no sense and is vague, easy to misunderstand, generally useless, and results in people feeling like: "???" as a human emotion!!!!!! i'm aware unfortunately it has no cure so my bad guys

˗ˏˋ 🌊 ࿐࿔ R ⁺ S QOTD ⸝⸝⸝ #11


₊˚⊹ — How comfortable are you making friends on here?

By “friends”, to clear up my definition here, I mean the kind of person you would trust with your face, your city, the kind of person you can comfortably shit talk to, the kind of person who knows you.

So, is that kinda person someone you could comfortably meet on here?

I suppose you might not see why I would treat “here” (retrospring) differently from any other ‘social media’; I feel as though not many address just how temporary people on here can be. Not to say you don’t realize it, or think about it, but it just isn’t something I personally see talked about often.

On here, you can change your username at any point. As well as profile picture, banner, display name, and bio. That’s not too uncommon, or anything, though.

Theres no dms on here. If someone were to change their profile, you couldn’t fact check who it was through messages.

If someone were to delete their posts and questions, there would be two things left to identify them as their previous profile: you may see them change their theme/profile, or your following status (like, if they’re blocked or something).

So, if you don’t mind making friends on here, do you have any personal feelings or comments about how little things last on here? —

Additionally: whats ur fav three matching colours

PS: Follow My boyf @ifyanasty >_<