hello! i accidentally posted a follow up under the comments of your last entry before seeing this. let me copy paste it here so it’ll surely get across to you.

“hi again anon! posting a follow up since i only noticed now what you were talking about for the outfit pic for malas’ show. i didn’t realize that i used the wrong pic of yeji during their ringo era and that her chest area was edited in it. i got it from pinterest (https://pin.it/Y7PbqgMii), i did not make that myself. i apologize for my carelessness, i should’ve checked if it was an edit or not. i didn’t include that the picture was from them as, once again, i didn’t know it was an edit. i will do better!”

as for your main point, i understand better now that i’ve also talked to a few of my friends who helped me realize where you are coming from. i apologize for how it took a while for me to fully understand your perspective, but now i understand that you’re trying to avoid the possibility of yeji herself being sexualized. i will definitely do better in the future. thank you once again for raising this topic!

hi anon! thanks for raising this concern of yours. i checked the edits you were talking about to double check if they’re harmful to my faceclaim the way you say they are, and i must say that i disagree with you. i would understand that you labeled them as “provocative” if they were nude pictures or pictures that are intended to be sexual, but in reality, the concept photo is a pic of a woman in a bodysuit taken during a fashion photoshoot and the edit for malas’ concert was literally just a bodysuit. i didn’t even edit yeji’s face onto anything sa edit na iyon. may nakalagay pa nga na jacket doon sa outfit. now, if you personally prefer to be conservative in terms of fashion, i respect that. however, know that my platform is not for you. i like to show a lot of skin and i have the freedom to do so. i’d also understand your concern if my faceclaim is underaged and if she said that she is uncomfortable with revealing clothes herself, but she is turning 24 this year and even wears clothes that show a lot of skin herself.

i’d also like to point out how “wearing revealing clothes = intentionally dressing provocatively at all times” is a problematic concept since it is very possible for people to look at me in such clothing and have thoughts that are completely non-sexual. this is a mindset we are trying to get rid of since it encourages r*** culture and victim blaming. also, would you say the same thing about taylor swift or beyonce who both wear bodysuits during their concerts?

i know that it is inevitable sometimes, but in my canva site, i stated that you should not associate my words, actions and behavior with my faceclaim irl. if you sexualize yeji just because of a completely separate entity, a roleplayer in a fake world who dresses revealingly, that is on YOU. just think about how silly that justification is. please roleplay responsibly and do not confuse/mix fiction with reality.

whatever i might have mentioned about that karina fc’s issue (i don’t remember anything about what i said), know that it is possible for my opinion to change over time as much as it is possible for it to stay the same. regardless, i am aware of possibly receiving backlash, yes. i just don’t care about what people have to say about my choice of clothing as it is a reflection of yourself if you think that i should cover up more. if you’re uncomfortable, block and mute.

i believe i said everything i wanted to say so i will only answer an entry about this on this platform once. if you want to discuss more, please message me directly as i am open to talk about this concern of yours. thank you!