hi, also not the same person, but ill also do my best to explain why what youre doing is being perceived so negatively.
when you two stopped being friends, it was not just simply something as easy to pick back up as losing contact or drifting apart. she had explained to you that your friendship was something that she couldn’t be apart of any longer and for VALID reasons. i understand you might miss her and what you used to have, but trying to rekindle a dead flame is nothing more than burning yourself and the other person. she has moved on and there may be regrets on your side, but you must understand that excessively trying to become friends with her again.. even to the extent of interacting with her while she didnt know it was you is incredibly self-serving. she chose to end your friendship and while you say that you care, ignoring the choices she made because you didnt like the way things ended between you is stating otherwise. i think its time to move on.. like how ALL of us have. let it go, respect us. respect yourself.