Precious. · 1mo
Kak sera maaf mau curhat... aku takut buat nikah tapi ayah sama ibu pengen aku cepet nikah, aku jadi bingung harus gimana... aku takut berkomitmen aku takut sama banyak hal... aku sadar aku nggak cantik, badanku nggak bagus, aku kurus hampir nggak keliatan punya payudara karena kecil banget... apa ada yang mau nerima aku apa adanya... aku gak tau harus cerita di mana... aku bingung mau minta saran ke siapa apa aku harus ke psikolog/psikiater ya kak? maaf ya kalau buat ga nyaman... makasih banyak kak sera
Sayang, if you already feel like you need a professional help, it’s okay ke psikolog aja yaa.. I hope things get better for you and I hope you can find an answer/solution from them. One thing for sure I want to say; punya rasa takut itu wajar.. I’m sure each of us have at least one fear that runs within our blood. Apalagi, growing up as women, aku yakin ada banyak ketakutan dan tekanan lain yang kita hadapi. Yet, I hope, those fears don’t diminish the love you have for yourself yaa.. You have gone through a lot of ups and down, you have fought a lot to be on this point—and it’s already a big war that you have faced. Always give yourself a love & appreciation that you deserve ya.. I really encourage you if you want to seek for a professional help, keep me an update ya. Semoga seenggaknya kamu gak perlu merasa sendirian. Makasih karena sudah sampai sejauh ini yaa, I’m beyond proud of you. 🤍
