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Abighail. · 6 answers · 2mo

Ada gak sih yang receiving love language sama giving love languagenya beda? contohnya gue, gue suka affirmation ke orang tapi gue lebih suka kalau dapet act of service more than just an affirmation. atau gue suka quality time sama orang tapi lebih merasa disayang kalau gue receiving gift dari dia

Ada, gue begitu kok. Lovlang gue act of service tapi gue lebih suka dapat afirmasi dari orang.

Sama! My primary love language is quality time, and my secondary love language is physical touch (I guess.. udah lupa juga) However, when it comes to people that I care for, I most commonly do this through acts of service? But still, I do my best to tailor the way I give love to what others prefer.

Gue juga beda kok. Giving gue act of service sama physical touch, tapi recieving gue quality time.

I think receiving and giving can differ due to your own personality and the environment you grew up to. I tend to give acts of service and physical touch. But my receiving love language is only physical touch. I hate when people do something for me.

aku! and its normal thing i guess. receiving LL aku lebih ke WOA dan receiving gifts! tapi kalau giving LL kayakny aku lebih sering physical touch (dan giving gift juga!)

Nggak pernah notice kesana, but I think mine are the same deh... But I'll try to be more attentive with myself biar lebih tau... 🥺

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