Anon 😭😭 everyone has hobbies!! You must have some so those are having a life 🥹 having passions is having a life, you don't always have to go out with friends and be busy all the time :) the concept of "a life" is different for everyone <3 I think age also has a role to play, and even then it's up to you!! And sometimes it's just things that are out of your control 🥹 it's okay <3