Wisps · 9mo
hii i hope this message finds you in the most nice way as possible because what im gonna say is probably not capturing your ideal definition of fujoshi and i want to make sure to justify and correct the things out since.. youre a boy and.. im a female physically and spiritually.
okaay so.. the things you probably thought that fujoshi is one of the people or community that sexualize the hell out of mlm relationship its not entirely true.. because fujoshi terms applied ONLY on fiction, whether its manga, or a basically mlm FICTION movie, and.. if you thought that those kpoppies that ships a REAL.. ships and hypocritely being a homophobic is a fujoshis too.. youre wrong, those people are not the fujoshis and they have their own groups, and fujoshi have no intention or basis for sexualizing same-sex relationships in the real world. Hope you can find this as lightly as possible.
Hi love, thank you for reaching out to me and explaining this. Yes I am aware that the term "fujoshi" is originally made for anime mlm couples, I would know as I identified as one pre-transition and when I was young. The reason why I talked about "fujoshis sexualizing mlm couples" is because of all the years I've lived, ever since normies has found light to the word "yaoi" and whatnot there has been more people using it to sexualize REAL LIFE PEOPLE instead of fictional ones. I myself have been trying to educate said people actively, but I am just one person, that can't change the damage that has been done (using the terms for real people) that's why the word itself has became rather derogatory to me. I do hope you don't take this to heart, hearing the word is just a personal ick especially as the meaning itself literally translates as "dirty woman" and the media representation itself sometimes comes off more as fetishizing to me. But thank you so much for reaching out and trying to educate me on this! I appreciate it, but I am fully aware of the meaning of the word and the usage of it as I am exposed to anime and yaoi at a very, VERY young age (around 11 years old).
