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Alisha · 7 answers · 5mo

Kalian pernah ga naksir orang terus berusaha deketin tapi orangnya sering ghosting bahkan ga dibales lagi, kalian maju dengan chat doi lagi apa mundur aja?

mundur. i never really want to fight for someone who's not giving me a chance or showing a slight interest to me sih. soalnya i usually told them beforehand that i'm trying to court them, so if they ghost me i'll take it as a sign that they're simply not interested. i'm not really a fan of push and pull, if they want me the equal amount they should show it. because i don't see the point of fighting for someone who doesn't want to fight for me too.

i mean... why waste so much energy when you can find someone else who could possibly appreciate your effort more?

Pernah, mundur sih. Soalnya malas kalau sudah di ghosting begitu berarti dia sudah tidak berminat dengan obrolannya. Tapi bakal aku coba lagi sih kalau ada kesempatan lagi hehe.

mundur sih, apalagi kalo ghostingnya berkali-kali. abis energi di lo doang karna kebanyakan nunggu, pas orangnya nongol makin mendep perasaannya

pernah… dari pengalamanku yang aku lakuin itu maju, but that's the worst choice I've ever made =[ aku paham bahwa hati orang tidak bisa dibohongi dan tidak bisa kita bolak balikin. Tapi aku yakin tipe orang beda beda!!! dalam kasusku akhirnya tidak berakhir indah, tapi itu pengalaman yang gaakan buat aku nyesel!! so… if this question about your current condition right now — I’ll say ‘MAJU’ karena kita gaktau akhirnya gimana.. pertahanin selama dia gak risih dan gak terang terangan let go of you.

Kalau dari awal dicuekin terus kayaknya bakal mundur karena lama-lama lost spark juga...

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