ahhh thank you, but i'm definitely not the right person for that kind of advice i’ll be honest. i just sort of yap a lot and hope to be adopted/that I don’t annoy people too much. i generally have no idea if i’m actually liked or just tolerated in spaces and just hope for the best. if I give of an air of making it seem easy that’s very surprising to me and its all fake lol.

the only advice I could give is talk. i think sometimes there is a hesitancy to reply to posts/make you own, but realistically there is no other way to get to know someone in this online space. so even if you’re shy try to push through that feeling. just in general I would always say to comment on/reply to fics/art/posts you like – it’s just nice to let people know that you appreciate their work and helps to motivate people.