i feel like you didn't read what i said, or at least didn't comprehend it. men who identify simply and exclusively as men cannot be lesbians. cis or trans. that's my take. there are trans men who have unique relationships with their gender and if they experience queer attraction to women, it's not anyones place to tell them they can't identify how they want. obviously this doesn't go for every trans man, nor do i think a trans man is a lesbian for liking women. acknowledging the existence of multigender and nonbinary-hood isn't denying that trans men are men? lol. "non-men loving non-men" is a weird definition and it always has been. it shoves nonbinary people in another binary. some nonbinary people are men! 🤷 gender is fake.

trans men have been included in lesbian history, for so long, even if you don't like it. you can't deny history because you dislike it. trans men and lesbians have always had a community together.

nd yeah, whether i like it or not. i don't really like it. unfortunately, i'm still pro good-faith by definition, so i'm not going to completely deny that, LMFAO. i'm not sure what your point here is, genuinely.

and yeah, i'm bi-gay. 🤷 not much i can say about that one, but heres a copypaste i have from when i explained why i identify that way to someone. it doesn't need to change your view, i'm not trying to change it, lol. "i think it's mainly because i am attracted to women but not in a way where i'd want to go deep into an emotional romantic relationship. like, i am physically and emotionally attracted to women, and i could desire intimacy or a bond or closeness thats mildly romantic or moreso qpr-ish, but it's Not romantic or sexual. but i experience all kinds of attraction to men, or masc identifying people in general.. and another part of it is that, like, i'm bisexual irl. that is my collective identity to the people i know, and a lot of that is because of the ambiguity with my gender and attraction since i am t4t.. even though the only idea of a person i could actually consider being with is someone who has a masculine gender." theres more to it, but that's the basics. i have an extremely complicated queer identity because i'm arospec and asexual, intersex, tfemmasc, bigender, whatever else. throw some of the autism and DID in there as a reason, too.

when the owner and i first made windows, we didn't have rules on that stuff, lol. it kind of just got pushed during SEC/lalala integration and people assumed. and to my knowledge, i don't think the owner is pro-gf. he doesn't understand it fully, but he still respects me and my identity! ^_^ i dunno. if you have any more questions, you can ask away. i'm really not here to fight lol