anon · 1d
constantly testing boundaries with someone new is borderline behaviour. if you want someone to talk to you just talk to them. they don't know you well enough to know when and how you need reassurance. let them get to know you before making assumptions about them and having your equally borderline mutuals back you up smh
idk why you had to be rude about it when i was genuinely just trying to ask for advice. this person isn’t new. we’ve been friends for a while now. and it’s not like i “test” every new person i come across. i understand ur point, but it’s not like im seeking reassurance. i’m just wondering if they genuinely want to talk to me or if they only talk to me because im always texting them. also it probably is “borderline behavior” because i do have bpd. and instead of acting impulsively im trying to think rationally and ask others for their opinions
