This is a tough question. Back in my Tumblr RP days, i once got lied to by a minor saying they were an adult, and didn't know until way after doing some smut with them. I felt pretty disgusted, ngl. Never want that to happen again. Sucks that I considered them a friend, too.

the ableism tbh, drove me up a fucking wall trying to deal w it and getting painted as the bad guy all the time bc i wanted my characters to coexist w their disabilities and not have them magically cured or done away w. no one liked when i denied permanent fixes and i was attacked often for being “unnecessarily cruel” and m just sitting there like “you know theres real people w fucking blindness right you fucking egg shell”

How judgemental a lot of muns tend to be, honestly. It's part of why I have a hard time doing on-tumblr rp because I feel like I'm being judged on my writing even with my OCs.