thinks .. not every term fits me PERFECTLY to be honest — but when looking for terms? i just look for concepts that intrigue me , ones that i enjoy & am unsure of they're connected to my being. it helps me learn what concepts actually do fit & what don't. mirrors , masks , love , vanity , puppies , bunnies , the ocean .. all are things that resonate with us deeply. we just kinda search & we stumble across things , iunno how to describe it