Anti-contact is a stance in the paraphilia community. Contact can mean a lot of things, but normally it means having sexual/romantic relationships with the object of your attraction. It had different meanings depending on who you ask, but personally I use it in the way I explained with a bit more detail to it. I think that you shouldn't have sexual/romantic contact with kids, animals, dead bodies, etc etc, but I believe that it's fine for other attractions like melophilia (attraction to sounds/music) or objectophilia (attraction to objects). To sum up, I think you shouldn't fuck things that can't consent, if they're inanimate go nuts. Fuck your pillows for all I care, leave kids alone