oof I'm sorry for the late response, for me but I love them as unexpected love
but honestly you can put any trope on them and it will look good¿ I also like to think of them as "I found you stupid/annoying but now knowing you better you're pretty cool :-)" idk how to explain it, orr "dumbass x dumbass"
but if im going with angst one sided / in denial is the best thing