there's a difference between discussing or disagreeing on elements/theories that are centered around the canon material and personal preferences in shipping. i'm bothered when people lack reading comprehension skills or conflate canon and fanon/shipping ideas.

it's none of my business what people like to ship or explore as long as it's fictional. and i dislike plenty of ships, problematic or not, but i'm not on twt to argue about them, so i block/mute and move on. it's really not that deep