OUUUUH this is interesting omg
hmmm
i think that on a day where big man was really overwhelmed with his clan duties he would (reluctantly) ask carrot (because he often tries to be independent but ends up overwhelming himself) to help him out
he teaches him their customs, does the obligatory “this is my boyfriend” intro and tries making him feel accepted
the younger members of the clan think that carrot and big man are married and think that they’ll have kids..,