Anonymous · 11mo
sen, sorry gue curhat disini. pacar gue keukeuh minta putus alesannya karena dia ngerasa bersalah sama sikap dia ke gue. sikonnya itu dia lagi di lowest point sekarang. gue bilang kalo gue paham dan ngerti trs gaada gue nuntut apa apa sama dia tapi dia tetep pgn putus krn rasa bersalah ke gue nyiksa dia. menurut lo gue hrs gmn? im in love with her, gue gak mau putus trs ninggalin dia dengan keadaan dia yang down
I might be in a similar situation before but this is what I personally think, take it with a grain of salt ya. It's not like I know the whole situation between you two. if your partner currently not the right place, perhaps the relationship can be a burden for her. because she might not be able to return the love you gave her. but if you are willing to fight for her, I think you should have a lot of patience. instead of being aggresive by bombing her with love, perhaps you can try a little break while giving her lots of reassurance. let her take her own time and be there when she returned. but well, it means you will also need to accept the outcomes, in case she's not coming back at all. kalo sekiranya lo takut kelamaan nunggu dan malah digantung, coba kasih deadline. bilang ke dia berapa lama lo sanggup nunggu dan berjuang biar dia gak seenaknya juga, oke? good luck
