little demon · 1y
Hi- I hope you don't mind me asking (you just seem so confident with yourself that I felt comfy asking) but-
I'm a girl. Born, raised, girl. Happily girl and the like. But recently (more like months ago) I've been getting really happy being called "he/him". I don't go out of my way to ask others to use "he/him" but some of my friends let those pronouns slip sometimes and it makes me incredibly happy. However, I don't want to be.. masc? Nor do I really care to be overtly "fem" (well I do but it depends of the day/ also sorry if that's the wrong terms there). I was just wondering if I'm like? Weird for liking those pronouns without actually being/wanting to be masculine? Like... I don't think Non-binary is the term for me so I'm confused if I'm attempting to fit into a non existent bubble??
Again so sorry for this question! I won't be upset if you choose not to answer! I appreciate your time!!
hi love there’s nothing weird about that!! tbh pronouns don’t always equal gender u can be the most feminine person and still go by he/him that doesn’t change who u are it just means ur more comfortable with that set of pronouns uk? there’s nothing wrong with u and if u want to be a girl who goes by he/him pronouns that’s totally okay!! and if u somehow find out along the way that ur gender isn’t exactly what u thought it was it’s okay too!!! gender is confusing as hell but u can go by any pronouns u want like whatever makes u comfortable!!! i hope this has been helpful thank u for trusting me
