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☁️ Anon. · 4mo
I feel like im the only yumedanshi in yumetwt 😭 are there no boy yumes anymore...
I believe there are 🩷
☁️ Anon. · 4mo
help what do u do when u think u yume a character but alr know oomfs who are non sharing of that chara i feel so bad
Personally it has never happened to me, but if that's the case I would try to talk about it with them or either see if this "I wanna yume them" is something temporary or not 🩷
☁️ Anon. · 4mo
Most times, I feel bad being a non-sharer with multiple oshis... Like, everytime I yume in a fandom, I always end up having 2+ partners everytime and I feel really guilty about it. Of course, I encourage others to yume the same oshis as me if they'd like and only ask to not interact with me as much. Still... I feel really bad and sometimes wish I was a sharer instead. :(
You don't have to feel bad, to yume is a personal experience and everyone has their causes to be sharing, non-sharing or selective, so please don't worry 🩷
☁️ Anon. · 4mo
When u yume, do y'all insert yourselves the way u are (for art etc), use sonas with traits you'd like, use sonas that share traits with u and have some differences, use ocs...? i'm having trouble deciding on this myself so i'd like to see others' opinions :thinking:
For my main two yume(s) I've been using OCs that share some characteristics with me personality-wise, but as of lately I've been using a silly sona that needed to be in the Pokémon universe just to cause trouble xD (and now she has randomically became an idol for a specific, messy AU). As for others CCs, I usually do with OCs that are either very similar to me or the polar opposite... It depends on the mood 🩷
☁️ Anon. · 4mo
Is it still yume if i only like them for a short time? I have adhd so i hyperfix on a fandom but drop it after a few weeks, every fandom I've joined I have an f/o in and I do miss them but I'm not fully "deep" into them
It is, coming from a person that has changed a lot of f/o(s) in two years 🩷
☁️ Anon. · 4mo
hiii i’m new to yumeshipping and this might be a bit of a dumb question but what does “sharing” mean? (in the context of yumeshipping)?
It means if you're okay to share your f/o, to see other people also shipping with themselves, talk about them in your same light and seeing them drawn with their yumeship, if I've explained myself well!
☁️ Anon. · 4mo
yumetivity admin do you love summer girls bc your layout was summer saki & now its summer lisa
I relate pretty much to them (Lisa and Saki) plus the fact that they have summer cards is good because I can decorate my layout for the season 🩷 it's just a little thing I like to do, to make everything I do aesthetically pleasing when it's possible.
☁️ Anon. · 4mo
how do you guys cope with knowing they will never be real which means so much stuff I dont think I can say without making other yumeshippers feel sad... /genq I love them so so so much but I am miserable every day
I believe that the feelings you hold for them are enough, personally 🩷 If you have the money and possibility, though, a lot of people get plushies of their f/o(s) to cope with this missing. Also writing and reading cc × reader is a good alternative and lots of people do also chats with c.ai to compensate more. I personally dislike generative AI, but c.ai is not that bad in comparison to the other, bad things I've seen with AI, I don't know if this makes sense somehow.
☁️ Anon. · 4mo
hello yumetivity mod !! thank you for everything you do, I hope you have a wonderful day 💛
Thank you, sorry for the late response 🩷 This message serves to me a lot, I've been dealing with things these days > < ;
☁️ Anon. · 4mo
tihnking about picky eater self insert x chef f/o
They'd treat s/I like they deserve, without pressure, since they know them well 🩷
☁️ Anon. · 4mo
what is yume ? :0
If you want a short answer, it would be "to selfship yourself with a fictional character, usually your favourite". However, to yume isn't limited to romantic aspects, it can also be a platonic, queeplatonic, some even familial connections and it can be via OC or a self insert. I think it's such a personal experience that, in my opinion, a good definition would be "to create a meaningful connection with a character, directly or indirectly".
☁️ Anon. · 4mo
I love unrequited yumes...
Anon, why do I feel like that people like you might enjoy some... somehow angsty dynamics? 👀🩷 /lhj /s
☁️ Anon. · 4mo
Sorry! I had a question about the ethics of yumeshipping.. I’m a minor who yumes an adult character who is a lot lot older than me (around.. twice my age.) I was wondering if this was a concern since if the roles were swapped, it would definitely be an issue!!
My solution in these cases is always to make an OC/self-insert that is around their age 🩷
☁️ Anon. · 4mo
does anyone else selfship except its one sided.. like i don’t think he’d like me back but i am head over heels & i’m okay with that and i think he’d think my crush is cute :3c
Probably yes, let's see with a tweet 👀🩷
☁️ Anon. · 4mo
hihi!!! im extremely new to the yumeship/selfship community!! and something that has kindaaa been on my mind recently is the thought my selfship might be misinterpreted as proship :( for context, i selfship with a character who is around 25/30 years old. and my self insert is 25. but i am a minor. and people have been asking why im shipping myself with this character if im a minor and AUGHHH ITS SO STRESSFUL??? not a question but id like ur opinions on the topic ^u^
I think that, as long as your s/i is around your f/o age's is more than ok, in my personal opinion 🩷 as for the causes, we don't purposely "choose" who to yume, but we can choose how to yume them, if that makes sense!!