gna answer this in the context of fics and whatnot before someone takes this out of context but I LOVE COCKWARMING!! horny reasons aside, i think the act itself is pretty intimate and romantic, nothing quite like being joined together in your partner's warm hole and feeling /everything/ and oh all the ways it could go with cuddling your partner or teasing them or giving foreplay before it leads to more sex heheheheh.

kind of a stretch but this is also why i kinda like the idea of knotting bc if you think about it, it sorta is cockwarming but with the added bonus of the knot + being stuck in hole heheheh

but yeah cockwarming is so yummy i love it sm

oHOHOHO~ im liking the sound of that au, anon!! mm the age gap too bark bark!! ngl the kinda wolf pack bit makes me think werewolf au too heheheh

sy's newly presented as an omega but he was raised sheltered by sj (alpha of his pack), who doesnt want him involved in pack politics. moreover he's the runt of the pack and bc jiu-ge cares about his only blood relative, he's never been exposed to all the violence associated with being in the pack. basically, sy has no idea about all the shit that goes down, thinks everything is peaceful and leads an 'ordinary' life. the pack members, whom he refers to as his geges and jiejies are all so nice to him as well! he has every reason to be satisfied with his life and yet ... something's missing.

he appreciates the other pack members being with him and looking out for him all the time, but he wishes they'd get off his back. so he sneaks out one day, has a little bit of fun outside when he runs into this handsome stranger while on his nightly excursions.

sy is a bit wary of him but he eventually warms up to this stranger bc he's so charming and nice, and he says things that makes sy's heart flutter. they see each other often enough that they start making arrangements to see each other regularly. he doesnt mind that the man, bing-ge, is older than him (he thinks it's kinda sexy heheh) and besides, he's unmated too so sy doesn't see whats the problem with being with him. so they keep seeing each other until eventually he finds himself in bed with bingge.

one day sj notices sy's absence at home and interrogates his subordinates abt sy's whereabouts. they have no idea where he is and thought he simply retired to his room for the night to study or read webnovels. sj gets mad but he waits for sy to come home. and there's his lil brother, sneaking in through the window smelling like another alpha. the scent makes him sick to his stomach, and rage sear through him because he knows that scent thats on his brother's body.

how dare that bastard alpha luo binghe from the other pack who's been stealing his territory, resources and hurting his pack members, mate with his dear little brother.

ah i just came back to the svsss fandom after like a 1-2 year break for my mental health and irl stuff, so im not that in the loop w the happenings of the fandom.

i havent heard of the sy = sj hc, or if there were any discourse associated with it. im not sure what aspects of sy and sj that hc refers to so im not sure i should say too much until i've seen the hc myself. but imo, based on their vibes, theyre very different from each other. even in canon, or like fannish stuff, i dont think theyd necessarily be "=" to each other.

if you disagree w a hc, thats alright! hcs are just for fun anyway. and there's so much stuff that goes into hcs everyone makes that i dont think it's humanly possible to like them all hahahah so youre totally valid if you feel that the sy = sj headcanon isnt your cup of tea!