fancy fujos · 4mo
Ngl these past few days people have been blocking me for shipping goge i.e being really strict about it even moots that i used to talk to are blocking me and idk how to not take it not take it personally at times so I wonder do you go through this and if so how do you deal with it ? /srs
🤔 i guess it depends. This is a very useless answer, but i don't know you or your situation, and i don't know if there's any "fit all" advice. I can't tell you not to care about it bcs that's just useless advice, and sometimes you cant help but feel hurt when something like that happens with an ex-moot. My personality is such that I just don't care enough to let the harassment stop me. My mom says that I'm like the Russian army - just keep in marching straight on 😭😭😭
I think the trick is to have 2 or 3 close friends you can talk to about these things and...hmmm...a means to engage with fandom outside of the tl, just to keep it fun. Most of my fandom engagement isnt Twitter so it helps that my hobby is spread out in several levels 🤔
If you want, you can hit me up and we can chat 🥲 I'm going to bed now but I'll respond in the morning if you want. 🤗
