Estella is ultimately proud of her parents and grateful for her upbringing, but she would at least endeavor not to feud with her children about their dreams like her mother did with her.

Not that Estella would just go along and support ANYTHING they did, but she'd try to prevent things from ever escalating knowing full well that even if she really didn't want her kid to do something, she'd only drive them closer to doing it by shutting it down.