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Your favorite pedophile giantess...or something
Say someone you liked a lot, responded to your advances and such, and were good friends with, deleted their Twitter and blocked you everywhere else.
How would yo go about dealing with the mutual friends? Would you try to call them out?
What would you do if you had a crush on their roommate?
Hello Jupiter!
This is a really hard question to answer.
I think I would ask their friends if everything is alright. Maybe it's a misunderstanding and you can clear up the situation.
I wouldn't just call them out and say "Hey, look at this horrible person!". I would try to understand the situation better and think about if it's really necessary to call that person out or if it is just a private problem between us two.
And to the crush thing:
I had a crush on many people but never had the courage to talk to them about it. I am not sure if I am the right person to ask.
Maybe I should test the waters with the their roommate, looking if the person might also feel close to me.
Herrroooo do u like peanuts
Yes :3
KISS YOURSELF (ily)
I love you too <3
I’m sorry about tha.. time I tagged you in my.. scabies post
I don't remember anything so I think it's okay. :3
Do you have a discord abs if so can we talk I would love to meet more people like me!
Yes, I have! Just dm me and I will send it to you.^^
Hi I was wondering how and if I can DM you for some help finding well you know
You can dm me on Twitter(if I follow you back) or on Mastodon(nnia.space , oddballs.online).
But please note that I do not support anything harmfull or/and illegal. I don't want to get myself in trouble or support harm of any kind.
I like horse butts too much. Especially after a horse pined me against the wall once I think that's where it started. How about you
That's a very long story.
When I was a child I always used to fantazise about giant animals whithout knowing it was something sexual. That's also were I started to get vore thoughts. Both was completly normal for me. I didn't think that much about how non - humans attract me.
When I found the zoo community I had the courage to discover my feelings more and realized that non-human animals are really more than just close friends to me.
do you think that para community is a trap.
No lmao
Would it be too rude to ask for a nude? Apologies for the bluntness.
Not rude but it's kinda weird.
I do not send nudes and do not plan to do so. I wonder why people are asking me this anyway lmao.
Because you’ve stated 16 as the ok age for
a relationship with a map is it ok for us to talk to someone under that age and wait until they’re 16 before doing anything. Some may call this “grooming”
I think it's totally fine for everyone to talk to people under 16. I do that too.
I also make friends with people under 16.
Grooming is serios manipulation. A simple conversation and/or friendship is not comparable to grooming.
I think i might be a MAP.
But, specifically speaking i want to be like a role model.. like a big sibling almost? But obviously more.. idk.
I feel like being a MAP is immoral in someways? I dont hate other MAPs i just hate the idea of me being one.
I want to have relationships, but idk how to meet others without seeming like a groomer, or coming off weird. Some of my followers are obviously AAMs but… im afraid id hurt someone unintentionally.
I know what you are talking about.
I personality never hated on maps but when I found out I might also be one I felt a lot of hate towards myself. I also thought I could never deal with my urges in a healthy and harmless way.
Take the time you need. Discover yourself. And don't define yourself because of the attraction(s) you have/might have.
Hypnotist Eros
I remeber that name...
Ho was this again? 🤔
silly???
Too silly
Would you be down to do voice chat goon session?
No
Why does 16 seem to be the general consensus on who's okay for anti contact MAPs to get consent from? (genuinely asking, I have not seem many arguments other than "it's the age of consent in most places")
Hello!
Before I begin to answer the question, I would like to point out that I first wrote the entire answer in German (because I can express myself better that way) and only then worked with a translator. Which is why there could be a few more errors in the language.
The fact that I am only anti-contact with people under the age of 16 is due to various things that determine my position on this.
My own experiences and the law: From my point of view, I would say that at this age I definitely already knew what sex could entail and could clearly make my decision. Of course, this doesn't apply to everyone and under certain conditions it is difficult to really speak of consent, but more on that later.
I also know people of this age who have enough maturity on this topic.
The legal situation also supports my point of view. Of course, I can't support everything that concerns the law, such as the ban on child sex dolls in Germany. But when it comes to this topic, I'm almost behind it. Only almost because in Germany the age of consent starts at 14 and I'm not sure what I can really think of that.
The environment: From the first impressions I gained on this topic, I came to the conclusion that a romantic and sexual relationship with a 16 year old and above is already possible. However, there are also things that you have to take into account. In my opinion, a relationship, for example between a student and a teacher, has a certain balance of power, which, in my opinion, should not be the case in a healthy relationship.
My conclusion from the whole thing is that, under certain circumstances, relationships between adults and 16+ are possible, and I don't condemn them per se. Which is why I don't consider myself an anti-contact label when it comes to this. However, I also think that you should of course still be careful.
It is a very, at least for me, complicated topic. And I personally wouldn't try to change anyone's mind who thinks differently. In contrast: I would also like to hear counter-arguments. There are definitely things that I completely overlook on the topic and therefore draw wrong conclusions.
Here's something about the legal situation in Germany:
https://polizei.nrw/artikel/sex-ab-wann-und-mit-wem
Here is something about human sexual development: https://www.elternleben.de/elternwissen/teenager/entwicklung-und-foerderung/phasen-der-sexualen-entwicklung-v/#c5962
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