the way you're not even allowed to think zhongli did an uncool thing during 1.1 its always that childe has no feelings or they don't matter because childe is "crazy" but they'll still go "yass zhongli girlboss using childe". they treat zhongli as being so cool for doing it but you're also not allowed to thing he did wrong too, not just childe. the ship is just people thinking its so cool no matter how badly zhongli treats childe because it's not like childe is a person or anything, his feelings don't matter.