NOPE. I have not attended any social family events thrown by my father’s side living in the US (including weddings or funerals) in the last 20 years. These relatives are my father’s aunts/uncles/cousins and I dislike them immensely. my sister and are a mythical mystery to them and we’d like to keep it that way. My own closely related relatives (aunts / uncles / cousins) don’t live in the US.