If someone I love is giving the type of attention I want to another person instead of me, I will turn into a monster. Example:… my husband will never try anything I make that has yogurt in it. He will refuse - I learned it the hard way, after I had poured hours of labor and love into whatever I had made (pastries.) he wouldn’t even try even though I told him there was absolutely no yogurt taste. then comes this girl who brings a yogurt dip to a party and he tries it “to be nice.” You bet I lost it. Why didn’t I deserve the same courtesy ? He does this a lot and it drives me nuts.