Merida · 13 answers · 1y
Let's say you've been knowing someone and after several dates, you realize you really feel attracted to them (in all senses). In your last date, they let you know your feelings are returned BUT they also confess that they're into BDSM. What would you do?
Assuming that didn't make me fall out of love with them, I'd probably tell them there's no chance I'll be doing any BDSM with them (well, not in those words--I'll tell them I'm not interested in BDSM) but maybe if I thought that could be a deal breaker I'd add that I'm okay with open relationships so if they want to be in a relationship and do BDSM with someone else that's okay.
