I'd matched with her on a Facebook dating app and friended her (as I would do with all of my matches over 12 years ago when the app existed, hence why I have ~400 friends on Facebook), and like a year later she decided to message me. I told myself I wasn't looking for a girlfriend anymore, so I didn't feel any conversational pressure and I was actually funny. In short time she asked me how she could meet me, what the first step would be or whatever (she lived in the Philippines), and I said for her to be my girlfriend. She took some time to deliberate and then said yes. I eventually visited her there with my mom.