The best I can do is preach (what I've been doing), provide visual aids for reference (on https://www.furaffinity.net/user/danganplumpap), allow open forum (the retrospring) and answer anything I can that comes my way
But the general gist is that you gotta imagine a cute deer with a lot of fat and then you know the truth that fat deer are awesome because they're soft and cuddly and all that's good in the world