Secret Muse · 6mo
Since you were mentioning comfort level in a relationship, what kind of comfort level are you in? In my opinion, i totally okay when my significant other is having a fun chit chat with his besties (no gender prefered) as long as it's just a random talk, furthermore if he knows his besties longer than he knows me. His besties always be there for him before he has me, so i don't really put much attention on the boundaries because i put my trust in my partner. I know it sounds stupid for some people, but yes, i am stupid when it comes to love most of the time HAHAHA tell me your opinion about your comfort boundaries in relationships for you and your partner!
Ohhh, I totally get where you’re coming from. I think comfort level in a relationship is super personal, but for me, I like to have a balance between trust and boundaries. I’m cool with my partner having close friends of any gender, and I agree that if they’ve been around longer than me, it’s important to respect those connections. As long as there’s open communication and honesty, I don’t really get jealous or worried. That said, I do think it’s important to have some boundaries, like knowing when to prioritize the relationship or being transparent about plans and who you’re hanging out with. It’s all about feeling secure without being controlling, y’kno? And yes, trust is key! I would rather give it freely and see it reciprocated. Hahaha I understand though, even if you say you can be ‘stupid’ about love. I think we’re all a little like that when we’re in deep and in love. For example, I’m such a loser when it comes to love hahahaha! So yes, for me, it’s about trust, respect, and keeping the lines of communication open.
