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Secret Muse · 6mo
YES, that passive-aggressive attitude is driving me crazy. No, you're not talking too much, i like it how you answer my questions passionately. Perhaps you're a relationship adviser? Or a relationship master? Hahahaha. Another question that i wanna ask is, are you the type of person who likes to show your interest towards someone? Or are you keeping the feelings inside until you make sure that the person you like has mutual feelings towards you? Also, are you a chaser or liked to be chased?
Thanks for saying I’m not talking too much—I really appreciate it! Hahaha, what, a relationship adviser? Maybe. Sometimes my friends ask me for advice, but the funny thing is, even though I’m good at giving relationship advice to others, I’m not so great when it comes to my own relationships. I’m definitely not a relationship master! Ahaha. As for showing interest, I’m kind of in between. If I’m really into someone, I’ll drop hints and flirt a little, but I won’t go all out until I'm sure about my feelings and that they might feel the same way. I mean, nobody likes a desperate chaser, right? But if someone starts showing interest, I’ll definitely meet them halfway and maybe open up a bit more. And oh, when it comes to chasing or being chased, I’d say a balance is best. I don’t mind making the first move, but it’s also great when the other person shows they’re interested too. It feels more natural when it’s a two-way street, y’kno? Haha! What about you?
Secret Muse · 6mo
I'm not the previous sender whom u talked with but your answers always appear on my TL and I like reading ur convos with them esp reading ur replies. now i'm curious, mind to tell me ur love language pls! i feel like it might be act of service? orrr quality time as the top one. seeing you responded to them is quite attractive and heartwarming to me, i'm a fan wooseok-ssi !
Hello! Really? I didn’t know someone would be interested in reading my replies… Hahaha. Thank you so much! When it comes to my love language, my top three are quality time, words of affirmation, and acts of service. These are the ways I give and receive love. Physical touch might also be in the mix, but not as much as those three. Hahaha. Thank you, I really appreciate it. I’m not used to getting compliments, so I never know what to say when I do... I don’t even know if I deserve them... but thank you, again!
Secret Muse · 6mo
I have so many questions but as soon as I see u, I forgot about it… you're so attractive.
Hahahaha! What? I have to give credit to the real BWS for this. He really is attractive—I even find him attractive myself! But thank you for saying that! (I’m actually kind of flattered by the way)
Secret Muse · 6mo
Why are you so cute 🥰
Me as a dumpling last night? Hahaha. Likewise!
Secret Muse · 6mo
annyeong oppa!
Annyeong, lovely human.
Secret Muse · 6mo
A balance between trust and boundaries, yes, i totally on the same boat with you. Also, knows who you should be prioritizing and communication are two crucial things for me when it comes to a relationship. A little TMI, i hate it when my partner just keeps all the emotions inside, especially the negative emotion when something off happened, but suddenly, out of nowhere they blow up with anything that has been kept inside. That's one of my biggest turns off in a relationship. May i know what you dislike or maybe your biggest turn-off when it comes to a relationship, sir?
Righttt? Trust is key, but you also need boundaries so you’re not stepping on each other’s toes all the time. Prioritizing who and what matters is super important. And yes! I totally get what you mean about the emotional build-up. It’s like, if you’re feeling something, just say it, y‘kno? Blowing up out of nowhere is just... ugh. It’s hard to deal with and makes everything way more complicated than it needs to be. So I agree with you on that so that—it’s also one of my biggest turn-offs. Another one would be… dishonesty. Like, if you’re not upfront or you hide stuff, it’s a dealbreaker for me. I think it comes down to trust again. If I can’t trust that you’re being real with me, then what’r the point, right? Hahaha. Also, passive-aggressiveness! I think I would rather have a direct, uncomfortable conversation than deal with someone who’s being all cryptic and snarky instead of just saying what’s on their mind. Hahaha anyway, I think I talk too much, no? I’m sorry.
Secret Muse · 6mo
meow.
Hello, nyaw. Are you lost, little kitten?
Secret Muse · 6mo
Since you were mentioning comfort level in a relationship, what kind of comfort level are you in? In my opinion, i totally okay when my significant other is having a fun chit chat with his besties (no gender prefered) as long as it's just a random talk, furthermore if he knows his besties longer than he knows me. His besties always be there for him before he has me, so i don't really put much attention on the boundaries because i put my trust in my partner. I know it sounds stupid for some people, but yes, i am stupid when it comes to love most of the time HAHAHA tell me your opinion about your comfort boundaries in relationships for you and your partner!
Ohhh, I totally get where you’re coming from. I think comfort level in a relationship is super personal, but for me, I like to have a balance between trust and boundaries. I’m cool with my partner having close friends of any gender, and I agree that if they’ve been around longer than me, it’s important to respect those connections. As long as there’s open communication and honesty, I don’t really get jealous or worried. That said, I do think it’s important to have some boundaries, like knowing when to prioritize the relationship or being transparent about plans and who you’re hanging out with. It’s all about feeling secure without being controlling, y’kno? And yes, trust is key! I would rather give it freely and see it reciprocated. Hahaha I understand though, even if you say you can be ‘stupid’ about love. I think we’re all a little like that when we’re in deep and in love. For example, I’m such a loser when it comes to love hahahaha! So yes, for me, it’s about trust, respect, and keeping the lines of communication open.
Secret Muse · 6mo
wooseok-ssi, do you know why is outer space dark? when there's the sun.
I… um… I suddenly can’t brain. The brain isn’t braining right now.
Secret Muse · 6mo
would you rather have a robot that cleans your house or a robot that cooks all your meals?
Can’t I choose both? Hahaha. Well… if I have to choose one then, it would be the robot that cleans my house. I mean, I can handle cooking, but cleaning? It feels like it never ends! Plus, it would free up so much time. Righttt? Right.
Secret Muse · 6mo
would you rather be trapped in an elevator with a dozen puppies or a dozen kittens?
A dozen kittens! I’m a cat lover, so that would be like heaven.
Secret Muse · 6mo
would you rather have a personal theme song that plays whenever you enter a room or have your own personal laugh track that plays whenever you say something funny?
As for this, I would definitely go with the personal theme song. It would be like having my own movie soundtrack, y’kno? And it would definitely make an entrance way cooler. Plus, I could choose a song that fits my vibe. Isn’t that funnnn? Hahaha!
Secret Muse · 6mo
would you rather have a rewind button or a pause button on your life?
Ohhhhh, I think I’d go with the rewind button. It would be great to have the chance to fix mistakes, relive fun moments, or just take a second shot at something. The pause button is cool, but rewinding sounds like it would give me more flexibility.
Secret Muse · 6mo
would you rather be able to speak every language fluently or communicate with animals?
Oh, that’s a tough one! But I think I’d go with speaking every language fluently. Imagine being able to talk to anyone, anywhere, in their own language—that’d be amazing! I’d never get lost when traveling, and I could make friends all over the world. Isn’t that cool?
Secret Muse · 6mo
I like seeing u around my timeline
Really? Why though? Don’t I talk too much? or talk less? or perhaps, annoy you in some kind of way? Ahaha. But thank you! I’m not sure how to handle compliments like this, so I’ll just say thank you. I’m quite flattered.