Hey sorry I didn't respond to you I was crazy busy. So I'm not going to respond to the previous ask just because I know you were kind of working out some of your thoughts on how fandom talks about certain members and I feel like one of your main concerns was how BSK himself would respond to things.

The jokes I make on twt are for fun and occur in a context where I have also joked about getting gyu pregnant and sometimes call Hao my beautiful wife. Wonu is someone I frequently call Princess Babygirl. But those comments are taken in the spirit they are intended which is just having a good time, and finding a new way to say the same thing, which is that I find these guys attractive and great.

I don't really worry whether they would like it or not because I don't intend to subject them to it. My twt is public, but don't apply for fansigns, post on weverse, or hold up signs at concert. If I were to actually have a conversation with him, it would be just me telling him that I love and appreciate him and that he's perfect to me. No agenda beyond him knowing I find him utterly delightful and talented.

I've actually spoken before about this before and I went digging for it. I'll link in it my response! It's a lot more detail about my thoughts regarding the issue as a whole.