Assuming this is based on the rejecter being someone the OC actively likes:

Yorra pre-zeph: Absolute Mental Breakdown

Yorra post-zeph: like a 3. Not that she'd have the emotional capacity to be vulnerable enough to ask at that point XD (but Emille refusing to jump her at first does leave her somewhat perplexed)

Didier: High 6. Offended that someone would reject him but after a good simmer he'll stomp off and leave them alone cos he's still OK enough to respect their decision.