For Ignia, it was a bit of both. Because of all the fun reasons, she realized how Thancred felts about Urianger before she realized her own feelings. So, it's definitely started as a 'he's one of our best friends and I wouldn't mind sharing with him like that.' Ignia thinks that Thancred deserves every bit of love there is. It takes a lot to get him to show that he cares after everything so she'd never begrudge anything he feels. She trusts Urianger, she knows that his feelings and intentions are true, even if he has to lie by the request of others.

She definitely felt a way realizing her own feelings and knowing that both she and Thancred had fallen in love with Urianger in their own time and way. But he had already been their partner in helping to raise Ryne and for Ignia, it was the trust that was the most important part to her.

oh, are we talking Igni's kids?

Honestly, despite all the chaos Zaeya causes, it's Priscilla in the long run. All the other kids had like realms where they caused chaos and it was unexpected but fell within expectations if that makes sense. Zaeya had her contraptions. Alexei loved to draw on the walls and decorate things to be found weeks later. Celune got herself stuck in trees and fell into shallow rivers but she always got in her head to be safe about it. And Ryne, Ryne was well a little angel who needed reassurance and love more than anything.

Priscilla. Priscilla on the other hand.

She was ambitious and intent on figuring how next to surprise everyone in her life. She never wanted to do the same thing twice and she wanted to get her hands into everything. If one of her siblings did something, she wanted to try it at least once. She was curious about everything and wanted to learn and understand and just try. Thancred, Ignia and Urianger never stopped indulging her but it was a time to keep up with her and she Knew it.