If you mean fem as in feminine, you'll be out of luck because Ismaele is only into men (ᵕ—ᴗ—) the bi/pansexual bachelors of the vicetober are Viorel and… Domen. Viorel is a cute choice tho ! You do have to be into giving pep talks, I know not everyone can deal with a partner who has very low self-confidence, but the other choice will literally just use you and fuck corpses behind your back so. Maybe it's not that bad !