I am used to be teased by people with whom I feel close plus people I did tease myself a little bit and with whom I feel close exactly for this. When I tease you a wee bit and you laugh and like it, I will feel closer to u and vice versa. I remember a little game of teasing and teasing back with a new acquaintance that had lovely results during the night and the next day .. your milage can vary ;-)) but it was just that single instance years ago, so it isn't guaranteed to spark each time.