Anonymous caonima · 2y
Also modern social media culture demands that you are ideologically pure and that you repent and self-flagellate forever if you fuck up (whether you actually fucked up or not), which is bullshit. You're not a rapist for saving a nude, and even if it was inappropriate you would apologize and move on. If someone comes to you about something you did in the past just explain "I used to think this way but now I don't because x", that's all the satisfaction you have to give
Not much ideological purity happening around here. I just try to be "true to myself". Sometimes that means changing positions and changing how I feel about things. Having inconsistent actions now compared the past doesn't mean you're a hypocrite, it realised you fucked up before and learned something and changed what you do to be better.
