Merida · 13 answers · 1y

Let's say you've been knowing someone and after several dates, you realize you really feel attracted to them (in all senses). In your last date, they let you know your feelings are returned BUT they also confess that they're into BDSM. What would you do?

I’d ask to see what sorts of things they were specifically into. If it’s something that’s a very mild version of BDSM, then maybe I could/would be ok, but if it’s something that’s extreme where there is serious pain involved… no thanks.

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