You said in previous answers that you mostly spend your time on invite-only servers and niche websites but you didn't want to talk about them. If you don't want to name those places can you at least tell us some good ways to find niche websites and what platforms the servers are on? Are they discord servers, forums, or something else?
I can't really give any pointers since, like, some of the things that I've been through are rather personal, individual experiences, and the internet has changed so much that following my footsteps would probably lead you somewhere completely different.
As I said before, I mostly just hang around with a close-knit friend group on Discord.
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