it's true! when i'm not drawing/playing video games/fucking around, i cook and clean often because i spend almost all my time at home while my sis is the one with an outside job. i really enjoy being of service to them and being rewarded and praised for it, and it likes the same thing! i don't really think i can fall on butch or fem but i saw your second message replacing the word butch with dyke, which is the most accurate! haha