Hm, I can take my outsider morality and apply it to their belief systems and says yes, these systems are a horrible deal for women, where an insider/believer (even a woman) might say fairness is irrelevant, this is what God commands... I guess what I'm saying is that I don't know that it's fair for me too judge too much, up to the point of people getting hurt, honor killing and shit like that, but honestly I think that is more about human nature than it is about any particular faith or belief system

Most of them are simply born into it, grew up in it, they are not shown or taught anything different