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He just proved you indeed did want to initiate it. I barely even know you or like you, and im upset and disappointed with how low you have stooped, man
Lying about being raped is disgusting (as a survivor) and I can only hope therapy can end this before this happens to someone else. No one deserves these false accusations. You said from your own words that your relationships don’t usually last. Maybe that’s something you should internalize. I would be more hostile, but I’m pretty sure Polaris wouldn’t want that
Maybe he could have approached you better on Discord, I can give you that. But you falsely accused him and/or implied he coerced you
Stop deadnaming him, stop undermining his trauma with Liebe, your “friends” enabling your actions suck, please get help man
This is unhealthy
I'm not deadnaming him. If he goes by Polaris now, whatever. His names always be changing left and right and can't pick one to stick with.
I did not want to do things with him. What part of that can you not understand. I only came out with how i felt at the time because a friend of mine made me realize what i fuckin experienced.
I was traumatized. Emotionally manipulated, LIED to, GUILT tripped, trauma dumped on (which i HAVE tried to tell him to cool with it, as it has dropped my mood). Plenty of times i have said that i did not like him like that, and he could not take no for an answer. So i quite literally felt forced to say things that i did not mean. ALL for trying to be a good friend. Fuck MY feelings, right?
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