jfc it was literally proved what obsessive stalkers his followers and friends are last night and he's apparently fine with that. Eww... Sending him an anon about the anon you received within 30 minutes means this personhad to have seen said post immediately after it went up, typed out and sent a message to you by their own admission and then ran straight to Pol's retro to type out and send him a message about it as well. Absolutely fucking creepy ass stalker behavior. Again, I am SOOO sorry you have to deal with this man. These people really need to get offline and get some serious help.

ik people keep calling pol a narc but in the most respectful non stigmatizing way possible this is exactly what untreated bpd does to someone. imo he fits the bill for that more than narcissism because it’s less of a feeling like he’s above everyone else around him and more so using the people around him for emotional bank. i was diagnosed borderline when i was like 16 and i’ve been in dbt for years to the point where i stopped meeting criteria. his behavior reminds me of how i used to be an eeery amount :p the difference is i was a child. he’s a full grown man. at some point you have to start taking accountability. i wholeheartedly do believe abuse went on in his life at one point (let’s face it he wouldn’t be this fucked up otheriwse 💀) BUT at some point you have to heal get up and get help. he is such a turbulent and destructive person. glad i stopped dishing him sympathy

srry for the rambles lol

That's his problem, he falls in love with people to easy and thinks their his “true love” he did it with he did it with you, he did it with Roger and he's currently doing it with Doc if his creepy love post he makes on Twitter are to go by. I'm the same anon previously hope completely understand you being confused about queer platonic relationships, even I didn't know what those relationships were too. I notice he loves doing that he makes these fucking post about whoever he's crushing on it's just not healthy to fall for someone in less than a month, like that's just insane to try to label a relationship with someone that you haven't even known long as something romantic.

Also I actually remember that he said you guys were queer platonic partners way before he actually went and visited you, now he's saying he decided after he visited you and you said you didn't feel “romantic feelings” for him he said he wanted to be just queer platonic, even tho I can tell he wanted you to be something else with him you weren't comfortable with. Like this dude's story always changes to fit his narrative to make him look like a innocent person when he is fucking by no means innocent. He's done horrible shit to people and he's full of shit. I'm so sorry you're getting harassed by him again you don't deserve it.

He just proved you indeed did want to initiate it. I barely even know you or like you, and im upset and disappointed with how low you have stooped, man

Lying about being raped is disgusting (as a survivor) and I can only hope therapy can end this before this happens to someone else. No one deserves these false accusations. You said from your own words that your relationships don’t usually last. Maybe that’s something you should internalize. I would be more hostile, but I’m pretty sure Polaris wouldn’t want that

Maybe he could have approached you better on Discord, I can give you that. But you falsely accused him and/or implied he coerced you

Stop deadnaming him, stop undermining his trauma with Liebe, your “friends” enabling your actions suck, please get help man

This is unhealthy