I saw this in France, UK and Germany. Everywhere it excelled in unpleasant ways of doing this to more or less opposing victims. I think it could be fun but not the way it seems to be the custom.

DISGUSTING

Disgusting.

I'm not sure what that is, but it sounds bad. Obviously, women should have a choice in whom they marry. I'm assuming bride kidnapping is one of many unfortunate consequences of the patriarchy. But if women weren't oppressed, chances are men would be instead, so whatcha gonna do.