Now that my relationship has ended in a sense. I'd look to see if he is a man of character and delivers on his word aka honesty. If he doesn't treat me like an option and never a priority as in forgetting i matter aka respect. Outgoing- i can't be the driving force in a relationship. Tbh ... I'm going to not date for a while. I gave so much and feel like i have to heal and be a better person myself before i even consider finding the prospect of love in another.