Hatter

TheMaddestHatter

CSA Survivor | Transgender

I'm Hatter. I'm FtM and use He/Him pronouns. I've been through over a decade of CSA and am open about my experience.

Don't be creepy. Death threats and Suibaits get mocked. I'm not interested in anything illegal, either.

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Lil Nonny · 1y

Favorite movie? Live action or cartoon watever

Sorry for getting to this so late! Favorite love action movie would be Jim Henson's Labyrinth! My favorite cartoon movie is Lilo and Stitch! And my favorite anime movie is Howl's Moving Castle!

Hatter · 1y

Lil Nonny · 2y

Do you consider your early sexual contact to be CSA (as in "abuse") or are you just using an obvious short handle? Did you enjoy what happened to you?

That depends on which part you're talking about. My positive experience I talk about? No. That was never abuse, and I never considered it such, and I refer to is as positive. However, I'd been raped and molested for years before that. That was abuse. I'd also been abused during and after that relationship by other people. I was too afraid to mention it to him, due to the stigma of being a CSA Survivor and being perceived as "dirty" and "broken."

Disclaimer: Don't do anything illegal.

Hatter · 2y

Lil Nonny · 2y

hi, i read your experience on prostasia and i wanted to say that you have my deepest sympathies for what happened there. i'm anti-c but i dislike with how dogmatic people can be too. It wasn't their place to tell you what your experience was. <3

Hi hi! Thank you for the support! I don't assign a label to myself, and my views are very complex. I don't mind Anti-Cs, so long as they aren't like that one mod on Prostasia (or a few other people). I'm really wary about them, though, as this is the fifth time this has happened to me, and this is the first time where multiple people kind of ganged up on me while I couldn't speak. It was horrible...

But just because you're Anti-C, don't feel scared to approach me! So long as you don't try to gaslight me, I don't mind!

Hatter · 2y

Lil Nonny · 2y

what would you want as a birthday present? (or just as a present in general)

Uh... That's actually a pretty difficult one. I think I'd like most gifts. Though, MTG or YGO cards are great. So's dice packs for D&D. Socks and PJs are awesome too.

Hatter · 2y

Lil Nonny · 2y

how long have you known your current partner? and how did you guys meet?

I've known my partner since we were around... 13-ish! We met over Skype!

Hatter · 2y

Lil Nonny · 2y

Favourite songs?

Difficult question, but I can answer my current favorites

Zydrate Anatomy from Repo: The Genetic Opera
If You Suddenly Think of Me, a Genshin fansong
Tranz by Gorillaz
The Song with Five Names by Will Wood and The Tapeworms
Vicarious by TOOL
Adipocere by Rusty Cage
Polly by Nirvana
Peekaboo by Set It Off
Shatter Me by Lindsey Stirling ft. Lzzy Hale
Don't Threaten Me With a Good Time by Panic! At The Disco
Class Fight by Melanie Martinez
Aikido (Neurotic Erotic) by Will Wood and The Tapeworms
Chameleon Boy by Blue October
Dance Macabre by GHOST
The Trial by Pink Floyd
Freeze Your Brain from Heathers

That should be a good selection lol.

Hatter · 2y

Lil Nonny · 2y

when did you start transitioning?

Unfortunately, due to the intensely transphobic area I live in, I haven't been able to start transitioning at all. It was a struggle to even get diagnosed with Gender Identity Disorder and something I had to fight for.