That depends on which part you're talking about. My positive experience I talk about? No. That was never abuse, and I never considered it such, and I refer to is as positive. However, I'd been raped and molested for years before that. That was abuse. I'd also been abused during and after that relationship by other people. I was too afraid to mention it to him, due to the stigma of being a CSA Survivor and being perceived as "dirty" and "broken."

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