Stahl is good with his family and relatives but outside that doesn't tend to have too much patience with children as his strictness and "my way or highway" mentality doesn't always mesh. However he's aware enough to excuse himself and get someone better suited around when he approaches his limits to help them cause he's not gonna yell at any kids.

Arryn is an amazing mama... she's also a good parent lol. idk how to say it without people going "mommy" but you know what, that's valid.

Avian is... actually? surprisingly good with kids: Pays attention to their interests and doesn't speak down to them. When out and about he's low key protective and compassionate which is how he's able to get them to behave - fair but firm and all that. Once he's Dealt With His Stuff, Avian would realise that he'd actually want to be a dad whether it be having his own kids with a spouse, adoption or being a step-dad.