Anonymous Coward · 2y
Just wanna thank you for taking the time to explain your view about that top/bottom discourse( I was reading the whole thing). It takes a lot of intelligence, maturity and empathy to explain your side patiently when most people just wanna fling petty insults at each other. You never know when you can change someone's mind, which is exactly what you did!
retroneptu | nothing to thank me for! if my words helped them realize what was wrong, then i am glad. i gotta say i've also "fought" about top/bottom stuff in the past, which is indeed petty, and i learned that those kind of discussions don't really matter-- if some people like to see their fave characters fixed, switching, or whatever, we should all respect each others likings. doesn't mean we have to be comfortable around everything, but just respect, and know our own limits. it's just a preference on dynamics that relies only on each individual fan :)
